Tymandra
I spent six weeks in Zambia living in the Village, with a few
days in Malawi where I attended an alumni reunion. When I first
arrived I found myself almost overwhelmed by the sense of family.
Everybody knows one another because the students eat, sleep, work
and live together, and it's like “one big happy family.”
The adults or people in charge were called “Aunty.”
Though I called people by name, this custom pulls you into the
family, which is really nice as immediately you feel part of the
group.
The children are polite and well-mannered. It's the kind
of thing that you notice almost immediately. Always please and
thank you, and a willingness to help, which made me blisteringly
aware of my own Ps & Qs. They are friendly to each other
– not so much rough 'messing around' by the boys as I'm
used to, probably because the children are taught the Pestalozzi
way of Head, Heart and Hands, and that hands are supposed to be
used to nuture and create, not injure or destroy. That's my take
on it anyway.
Dancing and singing are a huge part of everyday life. At least
once a day the students will gather and sing and dance. Usually
this is choir practice for Sunday mass, but sometimes there's
practice for things like parties. I once witnessed them
break into random song which had a “High School Musical”
effect when others joined in. Most of the music they listen to
is pop created by local African artists. Though I didn't understand
the lyrics, it's fun and exotic to listen to.
My activities
I taught gymnastics because I coach it at home and thought it
would be amusing for both the students and myself. Teaching gymnastics
was fun because the students are keen to try new things. They
don't give up trying. Maybe it's because it's a new activity for
them or maybe it's simply that they're open minded.
I also helped with “Life skills” - brainchild of
Kirsten, a volunteer from Germany – which included reading
and writing strategies and mental maths. Reading strategies included:
the difference between skimming and scanning, how to do both,
and the preview strategy - I think I learned something in
those classes as well! We also did dictionary work.
Social Learning
PestalozziWorld trains the 'head, heart and hands', and the 'heart'
part is the social responsibility part. The lesson is very practical:
volunteer to help others; look after each other; and give back
when you can.
One of the students' social project is to go walking dogs at
the Lusaka Dog Shelter every Sunday morning for a twenty minute
walk. I went most weeks and grew especially partial to one dog
called Spirit, a tan dog with plenty of energy. He was really
sweet and quite young. I wanted to bring him home but obviously
I couldn't. I liked the walking, for the exercise and the dogs.
My Last Days in Africa
The Malawi Reunion was a bus trip away, and was held during my
last weekend. Considering that I spent almost twenty-four sleepless
hours on the small bus from Malawi back to Ibex Hill, I was in
a daze from tiredness and the fact that I was already finishing
my time. The following morning I finshed packing and was given
a very nece goodbye party by the residents of Ibex Hill, with
cards and cake. At 12:30 I waved goodbye to the Pestalozzi African
Children's Village for the last time... in 2011.
I would like to thank several people who made my trip possible
and pleasant: my parents, for agreeing to let me go; Sir Richard
and Lady Butler for planting the idea; Michele Watkins for looking
after me and answering my queries and problems and taking me out
every now and again to see more of Lusaka on fun trips; Samuel
and Daniel for chauffering me around; Housemothers Auntie Edah,
Anutie Jane and Auntie Juliet for being there to help me; Alice,
Pricilla, Prisca and Stella, Assistant house mothers, for being
such fun to be around; Mabel and Victoria for letting me use their
office space; the Scholars at Ibex Hill who helped me feel so
much a part of the family and being so welcoming; to the Chair
of Trustees for inviting me to her house and the unforgettable
afternoon I had on the game park; to Jerry Merz, Fabian Kasonde
and Simon Wakely for getting me to Malawi and back safely; to
the Malawian Alumni for their warm welcome that first night on
our late arrival; and to the Zambian Alumni who made a long trip
to Malawi and back so much fun. |